We appreciate your honest feedback on our Members Mark Mattress, sue. Our mattresses can take a few days of regular use to "break in" to their final firmness, we would encourage you to continue to use the mattress and if its ultimately not the right comfort for you, you are welcome to return it anytime as part of the Members Mark 100% Satisfaction Guarantee. Contact Member Support at (888) 301-0332 if you need assistance.